Ok so me and my boyfriend have been dating for a while now and everything is going well. The other day we were talking and he told me that he is scarred to fall for me because he doesn't want to get hurt. He's had a rough life, there were problems at home, so he was adopted at the age of 14, then got into trouble and got locked up for a while for burglary, but is now doing things the right way, going back to school, working, paying his own bills, drug free, and living an honest life. Anyways, he's had a lot of ups and downs in his life, and we both feel that we have found something that could be stable for the both of us, but he's now mentioned a few times that he feels for me but doesn't want to because he's afraid of getting hurt once again. I have no intentions of hurting him, or anyone else for that matter, I just want him to be happy and see that I'm always here for him and I'm his number one fan, how do I show him/reassure him that I'm not going to hurt him?
Answers:
1. just continue what you have been doing. He will eventually see that you are sincere. Words mean nothing in these situations. it's all about actions. As long as you are always honest and forthcoming, it will show him that you actually mean what you say.
2. Leave now before you do the inevitable.
3. just continue what you have been doing. He will eventually see that you are sincere. Words mean nothing in these situations. it's all about actions. As long as you are always honest and forthcoming, it will show him that you actually mean what you say.
4. Leave now before you do the inevitable.
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