I'm not even sure what I'm trying to ask, but here it goes. I'm 17 years old and I've had a crush on my neighbor since the day he moved in... he moved in three years ago when he was 23 and is now 26. So basically, I've had a crush on him for three years. My parents like him too and he's such a great guy - one of those people who just make you happy to talk to them because they're in a good mood all the time.
Now, I just found out that he might be moving and I'm heartbroken. I know that there's a HUGE age difference and I don't want to go out with him or anything, but is there anything I can do to keep in touch with him? Would that be weird to add him as a friend on myspace or something? Should I tell him I'm going to miss him?
I know it sounds stalker-ish, but I'm so sad that once he leaves I'll probably NEVER see him again... it scares me. Is there anything I can do to keep in touch or to feel better? Thanks so much :/
Answers:
1. 5 hours ago
I wouldn't say that we're good friends, its more like a friendly neighborly relationship... but (in the least awkward way possible) I would like to be friends with him? Gosh, I am so confused.
2. Just tell him you're going to miss him! There's over a ninety percent chance that he'll find a way for you guys to contact each other. He might give you his myspace or number or something.
Or you can just move on.
3. Mk first thing first if u cant tell him u will miss him ur friendship will go nowhere. if he is a good friend this will mean alot. and yes u can email him txt call myspace and all of that. true that u will just be friends but sometimes friends that r guys r better than bfs. you need to talk to him. im 15 and regret not talking to my guy friend b4 he left 4 college and now we r just sort of friends and it sucks, yet im trying hard to talk to him its even harder and i miss him sooo much. so just do it hun and talk to him.
4. Ok, first of all the age thing is a big deal right now but in a few years it won't be an issue. I would defiantly keep in touch with him. My Space is a cool way to do that & who knows he may be into you also. When you turn 18 he may want to get to know you better without being afraid of going to jail. Even if you just remain friends it can't hurt to stay in touch with an old neighbor. Good Luck!
5. take the risk girl, life is too short ,.. you must tell him that when he's gone ur gonna miss him. I dont see anything wrong with that. just be yourself and everything will be ok.. if possible ask his number hehe.. so that you'll have comm.
gudluck! t.c
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