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Should I Dump Him!?????

   
On thursday me and my bf will be together for a month. He has been getting on my neveres eveyday for the last 2 weeks, and I tell him and he still does it anyway. I dont feel the way I thought i did about him , when I with him I wish I was with another guy I like. Whenever he asked me to kiss him I think its gross! He has been annoying everyday and I cant take it anymore! My b-day is on Thursday and my friends said I should wait until he gived me my gift before I dump him? should I?????

Answers:

1. yes you should dump him...why waste your time and to wait until your b-day is tacky and cheap

2. I think u should dump him he doesnt seem like the best guy but do it nicely and i think you should do it before yorue birthday

3. no, why would you want a gift from someone you don't like. dump him now. should've dumped him the minute you thought kissing him was gross.

4. i would give it another week...and not just cuz of your birthday either...just wait and see if it was maybe your just having a bad week or maybe that time of the month if you still feel the same way just tell him things aren't working out and break up w/ him but don't be a super bi tch about it good luck and happy early birthday

5. let him go...

6. it would be wrong for you tobreak up with him after your bday. just for the sake of having a gift. if you do that, you will have karma. it's like abusing somebody's feelings. tell him how you feel. and break up with him. besides after breaking up, you can still be freinds. and i believe he will still go to your bday. who knows, he's going to try to win your heart back. and impress you more. do the right thing.

7. No. Dump him now! So you can find a better guy on your birthday. If you wait till after your birthday then he will think you used him and will 100% ruin your chance at just being friends.

8. Dump him immediately. Waiting for a present, then dumping him, is lowering yourself down to his low-life level.

9. YOU SHOULD DUMP HIM AFTER YOUR B-DAY. WAIT AT LEAST A DAY AFTER YOUR BIRTHDAY THEN DUMP. I WOULD DO THAT. BUT IF YOU FEEL LIKE YOU CANT TAKE IT ANYMORETHEN GIVE HIS *** THE BOOT. JUST TELL HIM YOU CAN STILL BE FRIENDS. OR EVEN YOUR PLAY BROTHER. I THINK EITHER WAY YOU STILL CAN GET A PRESENT.

10. You really don't need anyone to tell you what to do with this one. It's too early in the game for you to feel he's disgusting, and if that's how you feel, he has to go. Get rid of him. Why waste time? Do it now before something happens that you might regret.

11. hey....you obviously do not having feelings for him anymore. I think it's pretty tacky to wait until your birthday to get your gift to dump him. Dump him tomorrow so he can save the trouble and the cash. Plus, girls will be talking about you if they heard you did that. I know i would...

12. YES DUMP HIM! please answer my most recently added question thanks :]

13. Even though your friends say you should wait until after your birthday to break up with him this is totally your decision. Follow your heart. You know how you feel about him and no one else does. If he encourages you and makes you feel good about yourself then he's the type of guy who really cares about you. But, if all he does is put you down and never says anything to compliment you on then he isn't the one for you. A guy that really loves you makes you feel special. He compliments you and encourages you and he is proud of you. And he wants you to be happy. If your boyfriend doesn't make you feel loved and appreciated and make you feel confident and happy about yourself then he isn't the one for you. Like I said before follow your heart and how you feel about yourself. Talk to him and tell him how it makes you feel that he is deliberately aggravating you. That you don't like the way he treats you. Tell him that you deserve to be treated like a lady. As long as you let him get away with it, he will keep on getting on your nerves. And not stop. I wish you well. and remember, if you do decide to break up, you will find a guy who truly understands you and makes you happy. Until then don't give up hope. And keep on looking. Remember, you have to kiss a lot of toads before you find Prince Charming!