My boyfriend hasn't been calling me lately and been real distant. I decide to call him and he continues to ignore me, till I see him at work, i talk, he says he's dealing with disappointment and stress over a work situation, I start to cry, he does nothing, I initiate the hug, he talks to everyone but me, he says he doesn't but he does.. I feel in my heart something isn't right, he's not there for me anymore, what should i do? He has been there for me in some rough times, but he's always been distant, but I feel like I should be there for him? But how can I? what should i do??
Answers:
1. 5 hours ago
we have been dating for 6 months.
2. JUST LET HIM KNOW HOW U FEEL AND SEE HOW HE REACYS TO IT....IF ALL UR TRYINA DO IS BE THERE FOR HIM HE HAS NO REASON TO BE SO DISTANT UNLESS HE DOESNT WANNA TALK ABOUT IT WITH U
3. probably he was not there for you to start with... let go
4. He wants to see if you're willing to be there for him when he's having a rough time like he was when you were having a rough time. He's looking for this to be a 50/50 relationship, looks to me that this has been a 70/30 relationship, with him giving the 70.
5. Dear Friend,
U know in your heart that this is not normal for a relationship.
U need to confront him and find out where U stand. One problem w/us women., we hold on to what we"feel" instead of paying attention to the changing situation. There is no need for him to mistreat you, and respect others. Pay attention, pray and make a decision. Dont let patterns set in that could only get worse. Find out what is on his mind, and go forth
6. You need to be very open to him. Trust your gut feelings. 99.99% of the time they are right. If he can't be honest and let you know what is up after you have put everything on the table, you may want to consider stepping back. He might be having problems but they may need time and space to heal. sometimes the best thing to do for a person is let them be and work it out them self. Good luck!
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