I have been in a relationship for 4 years i am 18 years old.When i go places i recieve a bunch of phone calls and he is wondering where i am. but when i call and he dont answer its no bigdeal by him. we argue sometimes but good times mostly out weigh the bad. he is very paranoid and jealous, should i try to forget about us or keeping trying to work things out
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1. Up to you.
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2. he loves you that is the reason he is jealous
3. You are too young to be working this hard on a relationship. Get out and have some fun getting to know other people! Enjoy your youth and don't get tied down. If he does not trust you then he is not the one for you.
4. this is king of a big prblem but your question is tough. wait a minute is it about you and a friend or something?
5. well, if the good out weighs the bad, AND! you've been together 4 years, i say keep going, but if you have doubts talk to him.
I mean he's jealous, but from what you've said, it's not all that bad
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6. there are two questions you need to ask yourself 1. do you love him? and 2. does he love you? if the answer is yes to both then keep trying. if even one is no then leave it behind.
7. Just tell him you love him and believe in the very best. He has paranoia because you make him jealous. Don't use that power...
8. you need to tell him that he has nothing to worry about because you are not going to cheat on him and if he still continues to call you all of the time then you need to leave him.
9. Im surprised you havent gotten sick of that already. Im sure you will hear this 800 times but you are 18 you have alot of years left in you to try and find someone who you absolutely love if it is bothering you that bad then leave. If it were me personally I would probably leave. That to me sounds like he is very controlling and controlling people are no fun to be around, especially not in a relationship with. Plus you may want to experience something else cause you have been in that relationship since you were 14, i say leave and see what else is out there!! good luck
10. Your too young with too many options ahead of you. Explore the world.
He'll never change by-the-way.
11. 4 years of little or no changes with the way things are going on with your relationship? in my opinion time to move on.you deserve someone better.
12. if you are happy with him then stay
we dont really know your relationship so no on can really tell you what to do.
he sounds like he is a lot to deal with though
liek when i am out of town my boyfriend calls me
but i like that he does this
and he doesnt question me, because he knows that i wouldn't do anything.
if you have never given hima reason not to trust you then it doesnt make much sense and you should tell him.
try talking tohim about it
and if it continues and gets out of hand maybe you should at least take a break.
13. I have the same problem, only worse. If he even so much as see a guy anywhere near me, even if i am not talking to him, paying attention to him, etc. my boyfriend freaks out on me. Never answers my phone calls, texts and it fine with him to ignore me, but i never do it to him and if i ever did, boy would i hear it. dont even get me stared on the jealousy part. i cant even go shopping with my sister without getting completely b*tched at.
everyone tells me to break up with him, but i just cant seem to be able to do it. Its easy for everyone else to say, i know theyre right but its just hard.
do what will make you happy, but i think we both know you (and i) deserve better.
14. Forget about it and experience life. You will have many boyfriends to come, I'm sure.
15. I would leave. I was in a relationship like this, and things can turn dangerous pretty quickly, especially if he drinks it can turn on a violent temper.
16. I would try to talk to him but if he's anything like my husband then it goes in one ear and out the other. Its ok for a man to do what they want to do my husband does the same thing when I do go out even if its with his mother and it does not get any better wate until your friend calls your house and he trys to listen on the other phone I wish I know about this when I was 18 your young go have fun
17. It sounds like you have already done some thinking about this! If it don't feel right get out!!
18. I have experienced the same thing. You are to young to have such drama in your life. This is the time you should be focusing on you and your goals. In my experience, the bad will start to out weigh the good. Though the ultimate decision is yours ask yourself a few questions 1) is this arguing and jealousy hurting you emotionally and mentally? 2) Are all your needs and wants being met and not physically? 3) Have you changed any of your habits or behaviors to appease his feelings?
You are just finding out who you are and what you want out of life and in relationships. Does this relationship go against wha t you believe now? You are ever growing and changing allow yourself that freedom and the time to know who you are, what you want, what you needs your limits, what you are willing to accept and not accept.
As the adage goes if it is truly met to be then it will happen. Move one focus on you and do it for you not him.
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