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What to do about a guy at work that I slept with?

   
I got a new job and met a guy. He seemed into me; asked me for my number, said I was pretty and called me that same night and we talked until 3am. That's how it started. Off and on we text each other and at first, it was him more than me, and I liked the attention. Then, he said I got clingy, which i can't really deny. We had only one official date before it turned into what seemed like straight booty calls. I kind of got the idea, but everytime i would stop talking to him, he'd say he missed me or something like that and made me think, O, maybe he's not just a booty call. I'd fall for it everytime too. Then I quit my job to look for a better job and higher pay. 4 days after i quit, I came back to talk to someone about a new position that opened. Apparently, the guy i hooked up with told this girl we slept together 4x (it was 2) and i quit because of him, and I was too clingy. Why would he just tell someone that? should i confront him? get even? still be friends? I'm mad...

Answers:

1. 5 hours ago
yea, the girl at work said he seemed like he was bragging about it. Also- sad part is, I thought we were still cool- and today i text him good morning (last contact was 4 days ago). Stupid me.. Maybe I should hint that I know that he told and make him squirm a little..

2. Never s**t where u eat!

3. 4get about him u dont work there anymore it shouldnt b that hard

4. Tell the guy to hit the road and go find another job.

5. he is such a jerk! break all ties with him and don't admit your sleeping together. just say that he is booasting, is 0X!! get ur pride back girl

6. well.....I would just let sleeping dogs lie....Just move on, you have a new job, and unless you are really close with the people you work with, I would not worry to much about it. There really is not much you can do, he seems to be a very immature person and personally I would not waste my time with revenge, just come out of this the bigger person. Hopefully, though you have learned a lesson in all this. I wish you all the best!

7. Don't hint.Tell him straight you know what he said and it was not appropriate of him to brag about something so personal.Tell him the only thing he accomplished is making himself look like a bragging user that takes advantage of his female coworkers.Dont talk to him after what a creep

8. oh just keep sleeping with him. if he was talking trash, he probably just missed you and expressed that feeling poorly.

9. 5 hours ago
yea, the girl at work said he seemed like he was bragging about it. Also- sad part is, I thought we were still cool- and today i text him good morning (last contact was 4 days ago). Stupid me.. Maybe I should hint that I know that he told and make him squirm a little..

10. Never s**t where u eat!

11. 4get about him u dont work there anymore it shouldnt b that hard

12. Tell the guy to hit the road and go find another job.

13. he is such a jerk! break all ties with him and don't admit your sleeping together. just say that he is booasting, is 0X!! get ur pride back girl

14. well.....I would just let sleeping dogs lie....Just move on, you have a new job, and unless you are really close with the people you work with, I would not worry to much about it. There really is not much you can do, he seems to be a very immature person and personally I would not waste my time with revenge, just come out of this the bigger person. Hopefully, though you have learned a lesson in all this. I wish you all the best!

15. Don't hint.Tell him straight you know what he said and it was not appropriate of him to brag about something so personal.Tell him the only thing he accomplished is making himself look like a bragging user that takes advantage of his female coworkers.Dont talk to him after what a creep

16. oh just keep sleeping with him. if he was talking trash, he probably just missed you and expressed that feeling poorly.