This girl has been pretty much stalking me for the past few months now. She always says Hi to me every time she sees me, and always tries to touch me as she walks by. It's pretty annoying and frankly, I don't know what to do. I'm white, and she's like east indian or something. Not that I have anything against interracial relationships; I just don't want to be in one. I've already made it quite clear to her that I'm not interested, but she still keeps on bugging me. What am I supposed to do?
Answers:
1. 5 hours ago
I've told her that I'm fine with just being friends, but still she walks by and pets me on the arm or something stupid.
2. 5 hours ago
She was born and raised here, it's not like she doesn't know any better.
3. avoid her as much as possible....can u answer this question??
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4. man...you really just need to tell her strait out that you are not into her...she is obviously no somone who gets a hint...so just tell her or one of her friends that you know will tell her...she be to embarassed to screw with you anymore
5. Be friends with her. You don't have to be in any more serious of a relationship than that.
6. You mentioned that this lady is East Indian, but you didn't say whether she just arrived into this country from there. If she did, I would have to say that she may be acting like how you say because it could be a traditional kind of thing where she's from. If she was born and raised here, I'd say try your best to avoid her.
7. I suggest you get a counsellor's advice. I'm not sure whether you are at uni, school or work. However, in most universities, schools and some work places have a point of contact where you go for help with problems like this. It sounds like she is really harrassing you and to preserve your dignity and sanity you may need someone to step in on your behalf as she doesn't seem to be getting the message from you. Perhaps she has trouble understanding your English. Also I'm not sure what you've said but I suggest telling her that you do not want her near you at all. Tell her you do not wish to upset her but that she has become a problem and it is affecting your ability to concentrate on what you need to concentrate on..eg. work, study etc. and that it is also affecting your moods. However, I mostly advise getting a third parties intervention.
Good luck. Stalking is not pretty and I empathise with you.
8. i think you should learn to deal with it or like get a girlfriend or piss her off so she aint you friend or so she doent go around you anymore
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