I'm 13 years old and i need some dating advise [[ please no comments on what age i'm dating]] I really like this boy a lot and he likes me too but he wants to get to know me better as a person before he asks me to be his girlfriend. Last night he said that he would ask me soon. He's such a sweet guy and he calls me sweet and beautiful, yet he has a lot of friends that are girls. They've told me that in the past he has called them, hott and sexy jokingly of course but i'm not so sure. How do i know that I'm the only girl he really like because he's told me this a lot before but i'm feeling a little self consious compared to some of the girls he talks on the phone with some of the time. Advise on what i should do? thanks.
Answers:
1. I wonder how old he is. I would like to make a comment regarding your age but you won't like it so all I will say is please don't be in a rush to grow up.
2. well...you can either trust him...or just move on to someone else.
i went through basically the same thing...and he ended up cheating on me...so hopefully(if you decide to trust him)it wont happen that way.but he does sound very nice.and beautiful is alot better than hott or sexy : )
good luck!
3. Rather your 13 or 30 you are always gonna worry about this. What I suggest is when he ask you tell him you want a faithful boyfriend in all ways. If you for any reason think he is seeing someone else just end it. You are worth more then that.
Also just don't rush things or move to fast.
4. let me give you a quote that I find very useful.
you aren't a fool... but a coward.
a fool cannot see.
a coward cannot see because they refuse to.
I know that you might not understand but in time you will.
and I hope I didn't offend you by calling you a fool/coward lol.
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