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I saw this girl at the library and i slipped her a note that read "coffee sometime" and i had a smiling face. Then she said thanks my boyfriend wouldnt like it. Me: "he wouldnt, but would you. She "yes because i love my boyfriend." Me: im going to get coffee , she " i dont like coffee i drink tea and i already had tea." i didnt stop then because i saw in her face that she was interested. Me: " can we be friends, can i have you email." She: "guys never want to be just friends." Me "oh come on try me ill buy you tea sometime and see for yourself, i promise," She: "no because you have no reason to want to get to know me besides the way i look. please leave me alone." All this happened within like 2 hours echanging . I felt like she was interested though or she would have left. right finally when it was time to leave i wrote good luck .. she took the paper that had all the letters. Whats the deal here? why did she put the paper in the bag? if i see her again what do i do?

Answers:

1. I kept everything from high school. I'm just weird like that. I have two shoeboxes full of notes passed around in high school. I just like remember them. As for the note itself, it doesn't sound like she's too interested. She's involved with another guy. If you're friends with her, back off and let her focus on her relationship. You can still chat, but if she shoots you down for a coffee date, she doesn't want to be one on one with you.

2. Yes! go for it! girls love to get flirty especially with notes. If you see her again, maybe walk by a litte obious right in her face and pretend u dont see her and maybe drik some tea