Being a mistress?

1. Lie I just said lady... the benefits are simply a boost to your shallow self esteem and ego. Enjoy being a mistress. Just don't complain to us when you reap exactly what you have sown.

2. grow up. are you a guy or girl? there are no benefits. you get sex, with no commitment. that's hardly a benefit, and a lot of people and kids are harmed..

3. You should be ashamed of yourself.

4. Sick...you give women a bad name. How would you feel if you were married and someone did this to you.

5. Don't be the other woman. You'll regret it and be angry when he can't spend quality time with you. But if you decide to do it, then remember that you're with a cheater so don't be surprised if he eventually cheats on you.

6. I can recommend some good psychiatric help. you might want to experience that.

7. I agree everything mummy dearest said. Don't go through with it, unless you want to get burned. There's never any benefits to being the "mistress". You are better than that and you deserve better.

8. Its not worth it from either point of view. LIves get ruined innocent people get hurt. Its moral wrong!

9. Shame shame homewrecking vermin ------------------------------... Besides, when you grow up (and you will) and change your mind about this behavior (and you will), you will fall in love yourself. Because of your past indiscretions, you will be unable to maintain a stable relationship/marriage because you will be always wondering if he was messing around with a "mistress". Thereby, you are damaging yourself (mentally and physically) by becoming a "mistress".

10. all a mistress is .....is not the wife..she is different in every way...find one with money and he will buy you jewelry to 'make up' for not being there....but be care full not to let the wife know ---she may kill ya!!

11. ok r u a girl or guy cuz kinda confused here... If ur a guy go ahead and try it and I hope ur wife shoots ur penis off... If ur a girl then go ahead and try it and I hope the wife blows ur head off... Any more questions!!

12. Being a mistress is being a married man's whore. Married men treat them like whores. Why would you want to be a whore?

13. Email me. I man should, and usually will, communicate to hear how much he values her; how much he loves to love her; how beautiful she is; and just how sexually fulfilling she is BUT he usually will go back to grudge he knows Will the other her---but not always. Email me--of course i live Costa Rico so it's safe. I can tell you of the passions of the "older more experienced man." Be careful. My darling...

14. the benefits are; * being the "easy" one * ruining a marriage *possibly ruining a child's life *being known as the town "whore" *Having no morals or values Damn, that sounds like fun! =) I'm guessing this is one of those questions to get everyone pissed off.

15. DON'T DO IT!!!! There are NO benefits. Why would you want to ruin a good marriage? Would you want another woman to come in and sleep with your husband? Also what if he has a family? What if he has babies at home? Would you want to be the one that those babies grows up to blame for why his/her mommy and daddy are no longer together? Would you want someone to come in and do these things to your happy family? Please think of all the out comes before you want to go experience it. You won't like it, I mean he won't take you out or let you meet his friends or family, because he's scared to get caught. All you would be to him is a sex. To me this question is like asking what's the benefits for being a prostitute. Only difference is you won't get the money! It all comes down to just the sex.

16. For her, She is in charge, for him, he does not have to be the aggressive one. So it can be great. But only if it is your wife. Other wise, it WILL END in a NASTY divorce.

17. lives get ruined from this no matter the outcome if children are involved in this matter no way can you get out from breaking up a home . my opion?

18. are you sure you know what a "mistress" is? at least what most of American society considers a mistress? do you mean - a mistress over and over again - for many different married men - or - just one time, with one man? regardless of the details - it's a bad idea

19. LISTEN UP!!!!!! I am a mistress and trust me its not fun at all. I would give anything to never have met this fool I am ashamed at times for messing with him at first I didint know for a whole year I thought I was his girl come to find out I was the girl on the side I should have left him alone but I was in love and stayed. You know what I'm doing now? Its been six years I'm a beautiful woman and I could easily get another guy but I won't. I'm sitting here at home watching t.v I'm pissed because he hasent called me in 4 days and u know why? Because his wife just had a baby and he has no time for me. Its a terrible feeling and trust me I'm getting out cause I deserve better. Its a waste of time don't do it u have a choice... don't do it for fun cause sooner or later the fun will end. I never intended to hurt anyone and the wife dosent know about me but if she did I would feel guilty for ruining peoples lives DON'T DO IT Anymore questions e mail me I got more stories for u.

20. Oh your unbelievable. You wanna be a skank? He wont choose you , your lining yourself up for AIDS and STD's . You deserve what ever karma lay's on you ****. The whole point of Question's and Answer's is having a place we can come and vent our problems , ask for help and take on board the advice given and be able to process the BS from the real people wanting to help the situation , while not all Question'ers actually heed the advice after processing it and use it to make their live's less stressful and more comfortable / manageable a lot of people do actually move on after the advice is given. When I give advice it's usually based on a double sided coin , I tend to give the side where the problem is real and does need tending to and advise moving on and giving yourself time to mourn the loss of a marriage or a loved 1 and then taking up some hobbies like art classes or theatre group's , what ever is needed to rebuild the self esteem and the inner soul. On the other side of the coin I give the negative , where I dont totally believe 100% that the question is actually viable or true and honest , like when someone just gets bored and basically writes a question that sounds like something out of a story they read some where. For this question I am afraid even though it may get me many thumbs down , I feel that this question is not real.

21. ur going to burn in hell u dumb whore!

22. Lady, you have never been Love. I hope You fall in love and your guy cheats on YOU!!!!!!!!!! So, maybe just maybe you know what us wives have to fight everyday: evil women like you!!! Thank You. Women like you break homes and families apart. Good women with children are what pushed aside because you felt like you needed a married man. SHAME ON YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! SHAME!!!!!!!!!!!

23. Masochism

24. They go home at night, and you can still go out and do whatever you want to do...and if you picked the right guy he will pay your way.....It doesnt last and you will be destined for disappointment, and will never be able to support the lifestyle they give you