People will always be talking smack but I do not know how to tell them off or how to stop this from happening. I hate to admit it but I can be categorized as being a pushover. I seem to overreact in conversations and can't seem to try to be myself. I can also be seen as a person who is vanity driven. Some people surprisingly see me as two-faced or a fake person. I would like to know how I can become a real one-faced person. A person of strong value that will tell everyone to back off when necessary. A person that people would look forward to talking with. I need some positive tips and a bit of reassurance if possible. I also consider myself to be uninteresting and egocentric. If you are going to message me anything I would prefer it if it were a nice and clean comment. If you are going to send me a message that might put me down, make me feel bad about myself, imply anything negative about me, my message, or anything in correspondence with this do not even bother. Otherwise hit me up.
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1. Stop thinking about what you are perceived as and start thinking about your self perception. Life isn't about what others think, it is about what you think of yourself. If your thoughts are based solely on what others think then you can never find happiness. Know yourself and believe in yourself, others will like you more for that and the main deal is you will like yourself....
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