I randomly stumbled upon some things and found out my boyfriend has had sex with a prostitute in Korea. I am disgusted. I went and got an std/hiv test today. We are in a very serious relationship and I asked him if he had sex before me while in Asia and he said no, however there have been two different girls (2-3 times with each). Should I just let it go since this was before we were going out,or dump him for not ever coming clean with me?
I don't think I can look at him the same way again.
Answers:
1. do u really have to ask? DUMP HIS AS S!!!!!!!!
2. Dump him for having sex before you got together, I'd say no.
The fact that he lied about it, well how can you trust someone that lies so easily?
3. Did he cheat? Yes, dump him. If it was before you were together, that is something you will have to figure out on your own
4. that was before you dear, let it go and get over it. he does not have to, or should you want him to tell you every thing about his previous life before you. Guarantee your not 100% factual with the truth all the time either. What kind of supposed facts and evidence did you find to "prove" he "bought sex" before?
5. Come on every one has a past and as long as they dont bring it to the relationship it is fine. I think you should let it go he probably didn't come clean to you because he probablu suspected you would react badly as you are right now. Its the past and i'm sure many guys have payed for sex. As long as it wasn't during the relationship just move on and let it go girl do you think messing up your relationship for something that happend before he even met you is worth it?
6. that happend before he was with you. he loves you now. he's all yours and no one elses. dont be angry with his past. he probably doesnt feel great about what he did. alot of guys are embarassed about stuff they've done. and he doesnt mention it does he?
7. I think you should dump him for not coming clean to you in the first place. I mean if he was going to sleep around and not tell you if he ever had tests done, then that is almost being unfaithful. Plus if he told you in the first place then you wouldn't have to take your time to see if you got one of his mistakes.
8. who cares. if that is the worst thing he's ever done, you're alright.
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