I am separated and about to go through a divorce.I have an 18 month old.I met this guy a month ago.I met him at a craft fair.He does it twice a year. I have been eyeing this guy for 3 years each season!He is 23 & I am 21.He has a 3 year old and had been divorced for 1 year.So I finally got the guts to talk to him and we hung out that night. We live 2 hours away from each other.following weekend he drove over and stayed in a hotel near me to spend the day with me.We had a great time.Well I asked if I could see him the nxt weekend either met halfway, me drive there, or him here.He says he wants to move slow and maybe we should chill every other weekend.He works nights this week (12pm-8am) and hasnt called in 2 days should I call him?Or wait it out?I really like him and dont wanna let it go.i dont want 2 seem desparate.Is he interested?He tells me he likes talking to me but doesnt want me to catch feeling too quick,he says whatever happens,happens.I know he is cautious bc of our marriages
Answers:
1. He hasn't called for two days? I'm sorry but big deal. He sounds busy with his child and job. Perhaps you should play the field a bit, find someone a little closer to you with a more open schedule.
2. If you are meant to be you will be! Besides you need to get out of your present relationship first! It is not fair to you or your child to be getting into another relationship without doing that first! Go Slow! Your child should come first!!
3. He definitly likes you and as he said he wants to take it slow. He went through a divorce and you are going through one now. Dont you think after that you owe it to yourself and your child to take it slow and not just jumpt into feelings for an other guy without even being officialy divorce. And try to understand him he has a weir schedual and a 3 year old he is busy but still find time to drive 2 hours to spend the day with you. GO SLOW
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