Okay there is a guy I work with(and no there is no policy against dating) and I have the biggest crush on him ever! Like I said earlier, he insists on calling me Lila, which no one else at work does. My name is Delilah and most people just call me that, but not him. Everyday I show up at work, he always calls out "Lila's here!!!!" very cheerfully. On my bad days, he goes out of his way to cheer me up, and he always cracks dumb jokes around me to make me laugh.
He calls me everyday after work just to talk. Sometimes he even makes up random stuff to say to keep me on the line.
We are good friends out of work. We even have movie night every Friday where we take turns picking movies and going to the other's house.
He acts so different around me then he does around everyone else, which makes me think he likes me.
My question is does he want to be more than friends or is he just friendly? If he does like me, how to I let him know I feel the same way without being too obvious?
Answers:
1. 5 hours ago
Some one on here said the opening line to "Hey There Delilah" well that just reminds me of the same guy I'm asking about. He is constantly singing that song around me. LOL.
2. Yes he is a friendly guy who likes being around women. At the same time, he does want to be more with you.
3. Hey there delilah whats it like in new york city? sorry i just had to say it.
He deffinetally likes you a lot! You shoud just be a little flirty when he flirts with you. dont be sooo obvious that u scare him away but guys dont catch onto flirting as fast as girls do so give him a little extra hint ;]
4. if you want to let him know how you feel there is no such thing as obvious. you just have to tell him or live in regret. just ask him out. or make a move on movie night.
5. it depends how long hes been doing this... if its been like 5 years than obviously he is just tryin to be friends... but if its just recently than maybe he likes u...
6. i think he likes you
7. WOW.
I'd love for my crush to want to have movie night with me....then I'd jump him during the closing credits!!
NAW. For real, hun....
Does he "hold the door open" and do other chivalrous stuff for you?
Does he sit next to you, touch your shoulder, make eyes at you, or anything remotely close to physical or sexual?
Hmmm. This is a hard one. If the answer to the above is yes, well then the relationship may be coming on slowly but surely.
If not, well....
He could be extremely shy or inexperienced with women, so he's unsure how to act...OR
you're his bud.
Unless you hint or make the first move, you may never know which it is. You can suggest going out to a dinner rather than going to each other's house for movies. You can suggest a romantic place (that HE knows is a romantic place) and see if he hesitates to go there with you. In which case he is avoiding the gf thing, and just wants to be friends.
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