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Theres this girl at canada high school i chat to all the time (shes in my class), she used to be quiet when i used to talk at the start, and i always catch her staring at me, and when i catch her she looks away:).Now she has really opened up and talks to me alot, and laughs alot when i speak to her!, she can still be quiet at times though, but she will try her best to start a conversation now too! i wave to her everytime she looks and she always smiles and waves back to me. The other day, i told her about an event i went and done during my holiday, and she was like "i havent done that in ages!", and then she said "where do you even go to do that nowadays"..i told her where and said its heaps of fun....then she went quiet for awhile...then we started talking again, was she wanting me to ask her out?i like this girl alot! and have been chatting to her little bits at a time for around 4 months!.she also said "do you have any plans for your school break?"
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1. 51 minutes ago
update: I asked her to a movie, and she said yes:).....then the next day when i called her, her boyfriend picked up the phone(which she had left around him by accident, (i didnt even know she had a boyfriend!!), they then must of had a fight, and she later called me and said she cant go to the movies, and that her boyfriend wont allow her to. i tried speaking to her making sure everything is ok, but she isnt talking to me, did she play me???. What should i do? i think she wanted to prolly see what i was like outside of class and just hang out but it backfired on her.what should i do now?The thing that annoys me is... when i saw her, she acted as though nothing had happened, im not bothered by it though, but she obviously is hiding something, and shes still all flirty towards me, and smiles and talks more now!...why is she acting this way now?and how should i react next time i see her, its going to be awkward i can tell!i only see her in 2 classes, twice a week
2. 50 minutes ago
whats bothered me about all this, is that ive been slowly building up a great relationship with this girl, and made alot of effort and now she goes and does this!, im really annoyed
3. I'm totally lost..?
4. i kinda didn't get it but by the sounds of it she likes you but is scared.
she may have lost feelings for her current boyfriend and doesn't know how to break it to him.
maybe just talk to her and find out what is going through her mind, it may be awkward but she may need to let it all out and it sounds like you have a pretty good relationship with her so it can't be too bad.
i'm probably totally wrong but hope it helped kind of:)
5. it could be alot of things ,
she probably likes you but doesn't want to break up with her bfbut also didn't want you to know about her bf because she didn't wanna turn you away -_-
she likes having two guys .......(shrugs)
you need to just ask her
......tell her the truth
see what she says
6. well sweetie i can tell you most girls that are in a relationship if they arent happy they will want to hang out and make something more now if this girl has a relationship that is bad and he is hitting her or he is just emotionally abusive then yea she probably did break it but i can tell you the way the girl acts she is to you for help maybe she likes you alot and she just doesnt know how to tell her boyfriend or she is scared to tell him what i sugest that you do is sit down and ask her what she wants from you yea sounds a little mean but if you tell her that you are here for her and that you want to be with her she might find the streath to tell you why she did that you just have to talk to her she sounds like she really likes you and wants to be with you just ask her straight out i dont think she is playing you i strongly think she is scared of something
7. My best guess is that she's flirting with you although she already have a boyfriend. You should not get involve with her in the first place (feelings wise). Just be a friend to her.... Try not to show so much that you really like her. Remember that if she can break up with her boyfriend now and then become your girlfriend, she can do the same to you when another guy comes along..... Be careful.
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