ok so a year ago i fell for my best friend. we've been on and off friends and we've been fighting the whole time up until recently. like a month ago things were chill between us again and stuff, we were friends and i told her i would stop talking about her to people even if we werent and im still trying not to cause thats why she didnt like me. but like 2 weeks ago she made up some stupid lie about a fake 23 yr old bf and stuff and i got mad about it so she blocked me. then 2 days later i was walknig and she came outside with her bff and watched me. i got home and called her about it and she accused me of walking just to see her house or something and started yelling at me. she has no reason to be mad at me whatsoever. but recently ive been meaning to talk to her about how she acts and if its on purpose or from bi-polar. i want to tell her i cant keep doing this back and forth thing and that she needs to make up her mind.
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1. 6 hours ago
i also wanna tell her in person, why i love her and stuff cause shes been wanting to know for a long time. and on top of that i think its getting near homecoming, which i cant go to since i got kicked out of school but idk. i want to tell her soon and maybe she will understand and change. what do you think?
2. sounds like she has made up her mind, move on, you are obsessing
3. are u in middle school? just let things chill out for a bit. don't get in her way. dont talk to her for a week or give her any reason to talk or be mad at u. then u can just go out and tell her how u like her and all later. She needs to realise ur missing before she will care
4. You might think about getting back to school somehow.
5. There's never the PERFECT option, and I havn't got too good of luck with women either considering my girl gets mad at me often, amongst other things which I won't expose to the general public,
1) Don't mention her mental illnesses unless it comes up from her end of the discussion.
2) keep a good tone, and if she yells, don't yell back. keep your cool, women usually will keep their cool coz they're the better half of humans, but sometimes girls will flip out, in this case don't get mad and make her more mad.
3) Talk to her about what bothers you, and offer suggestions as to what she can do to help you feel better about the relationship.
4) Don't talk about her in a negative way to your friends EVER even if you're angry at eachother.
5) Definately talk in person lol, otherwise you're likely to get hung up on or ignored.
6) If she doesn't want to talk anymore, or walks away, don't grab her arm or anything.
7) MAKE SURE YOU TELL HER YOU LOVE HER AS MUCH AS POSSIBLE it breaks the ice often :).
I hope I helped somehow,
Russell J. Crevatas
6. Ok....so call her and say: look i know you'r mad at me but i didn't want it to happen cus i feel bad for doing what i did and geting you mad....then she'll respond then your on your own
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