I used to go out with a girl named Natalia. She took a vacation trip to England, fell in love with a blonde guy with a British accent, and we broke up. So I moved on and went out with another girl named Janine.
A year later, Natalia and the British guy broke up. Natalia wanted me back, while I was going out with Janine, so, of course, I refused. But she still kept hanging around me more and more. Janine noticed this, and we broke up.
Later, Janine apolagized for being a "jealous freak" and said that she wants me back, too.
So which one should I choose? We have Janine, who loves to just have fun. She's really into music. Her apartment looks like it belongs to a rock star. Video games, CDs, soda cans, and magazines litter the place.
Then we have Natalia, who wants everything to be perfect. Her place is in perfect shape. Once, I broke my leg once and she never left my side. Anyway, you can see how Janine and Natalia are different...
So who do you think I should choose?
Answers:
1. 6 hours ago
And if you chose Janine or Natalia, tell me why.
2. We readers really don't have enough information to make such a judgement, nor should we have the power to. Do your own thinking, because you shouldn't let the world do the thinking for you...
3. i only read the title of ur question, but.......*sigh* at least you HAVE a choice!
4. i think both have problems.... but janine said she was sorry.
what natalia did was wrong.
i think u should go for janine by the way u described her she seems like she lives a chill life while natalia lives an uptight life getting all she wants.
good luck =]]
5. Tough but id pick Janine because it sounds like Natalia is giving you too much attention when you date
6. They both dont seem very loyal... But I like the Idea that Natalia is committing like that to not leave your side when you broke your leg so i choose her.
7. I don't know, you should pick which one is a good fit, I do know you should remember till the day you die this moment when you actually get to pick between two women.
8. who do you love... or like more?
9. janine.
10. umm yea i can see how your havin a hard time...go for Janine, cuz your gonna like life with her, some how i can tell
11. Natilie left you for another man... Janine was jealous and dint stick by your side.. unless u gave her a reason to break up with you? Such as when Natilie was following you, did you flirt back? I would take a break... date them both. Theres nothing wtong with dating them both as long as they both know about the situation. Dont promise them both something. Im currently dating both of my exs.. They both know and it does get hard but if you rush into one of them you will regret it later. Take your time..
12. its should not us telling you to choose or pick one.its you who has to decide. we can only tell you to choose one person by reading 5 or 6 lines question but anyway i think you like Natalia go back to her.
13. If it were me i would go with none....
But if you really want to choose between the two , close your eyes for few seconds and who ever you see first is the one you are more inclined tooo..............
Please let us know your choice.
14. Overall the way you describe them, Janine sounds better. But then you talk about the loyal way that Natalia stayed with you when you had a broken leg - was that before or after she left with the British guy?
If it was me, I'd just be a playa and sneak around with both of them - keeping them secret from each other. Or if they both seem a little kinky, you might feel them out about how they feel about a three-play.
15. I think you should stick with janine, she seems like a great girl, but as a ( man ) i think you should at least keep Natalia as a back up , if things dont work out between you and Janine, so just keep Natalia around as a "good" friend.......
16. I think you should choose Janine, she's cool...even her room is cool. Well, that's not the reason I want you to choose her...As you can see, Natalia left you for another good looking guy, and now she wants you back. What if later she has another trip then she will like another guy then will dump u again. So yeah ...it is up to you but that is my opinion.
P/S: Janine broke up with you because she got jealous...why would she be jealous? because she likes you so much.
If Natalia really likes you then she should've just leave you alone already when she knew that you already move on with another girl. Wishing happiness for the one she loves is what she really should do.
17. Sounds to me like you have urself in quite a pickle! lol i think u should go for janine. heres why- yes she may have been a "jealous freak" but who can blame her? if my bf's ex was hanging around him all the time acting like she wanted him back damn right i wud get jealous, i also wudnt be afraid to hawl off and break her nose. but thats beside the point. u say natalia had left u for some british dude? whose to say she wont do it again? janine has never hurt you (from what i know) and the reson u two broke up is kind of ur fault,not all ur fault, but somewhat. the reason i say that is b/c u cud have told natailia to back off. and when she didnt listen then she obviously didnt respect u or ur new gf and who wants to be around someone like that? right? so i have spoken my mind i hope i helped. good luck. ~heather
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