It would actually help us both out, co-habitating to keep our bills down, as she said, the rent is killing her ! We live on opposite sides of the city, in Sydney and its very expensive. I don't love her anymore, but care for her and we get along, so if it helps us both should be co-habitate, even though the love has gone ?
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1. 5 hours ago
Hubby; yeh mate that raises a hard Question, i don't think i could be in a seperate bed, listening to her with some other guy, but i could share my bed with her everynight, just without the commitment ! Would that be fair, to take the pressure and expectation off ?
2. well the whole helping each other with bills is good, im not so sure about the sex. but go for it anyways!
3. If she doesn't know you don't love her anymore, it could get ugly.
4. It would be for Business or Pleasure. You cant expect both.
If there is enough room in the flat, then cash saving is common sense
5. as long as she knows you dont lvoe her anymore i think its fine, but if she thinks you lvoe her and she loves you then i wouldnt because she might think this is a step in a relationship which wouldnt be good for you being that you do love her anymore. and the sex thing, hey if shes fine having sex without any strings attached, besides living with her its fine. thats what friends with benifits are for. just be careful with the sex part because girls get attched easly when sex is involved and especially if shes living with you some feelings might come back for you.
6. thats all I needed to read. As long as she knows those are your intentions and she doesn't mind it; fine. No matter what at the end of the day you have to be honest with her, cause you're sleeping with her. As long as you both agree to move in together and about your current relationship status "friends with benefits"... then there should be no problem.
7. IF it is gone for both of you and you BOTH truley understand that and just want to split the bills and knockit out every once in a while, I say go for it. But be sure you can handle her with another guy and she can handle you with another girl. It WILL happen sooner or later.
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