I'm 19 years old and I have never had a girlfriend, Because of this I don't know how to impress a girl. I'm not bad looking but I'm really shy. Once I get to know girls I can open up and become outgoing but I always get stuck with the label as being shy. I met a girl who I have been friends with for about 2 years. She is the first girl who actually likes hanging out with me. We are just friends:( I think the reason why I'm stuck as her friend and nothing more is because I do too much to impress her. Since we have been friends I have given her flowers on valentines day last year, take her out to dinner, Give her rides when she needs them, Helped her find a job, gave her money when she needed it, etc., I help her out a lot because I like her a lot and she knows this. I hope she isn't using me, but I don't think she is because it dosen't feel like it anymore. I know all girls are different but what do most girls look for in guys? what can I do to improve myself with girls?
thanks
Answers:
1. For me I look for a really sweet and nice guy. I dont want some jerk as a boyfriend. Most girls want a guy that is sensitive and caring. When i dream of the perfect boyfriend he's holding me in his arms and whispers i love you; girls look for that kind of guy. i'll list some facts that girls love about guys:
1). Nice
2). Sweet/caring
3). Great smile
4). Likes to have fun
5). Funny
6). never lies
7). gives compliments.
2. girls are usually attracted to the guys that will treat them bad until they mature which is usually sometime in college or later. the nice guys aren't what young girls usually go for. they are also attracted to guys that have confidence in themselves. gain some confidence in yourself and you should see that more girls will like you. be real about it though because girls can somehow see through fake confidence often times.
3. The last answer is right on.
Except, he left out that your "friend" IS using you. UNLESS:
1. She paid you back the money you gave her or is REALLY trying to.
2. She gives something back to you in return (not sex) and not just her friendship. and don't lie to yourself saying she does not have anything to give. She can make something to say thank you and it does not have to cost a thing.
Think about it with your brain, not your heart. How does she treat you?
Becoming "good friends" with a girl is a 99% death sentence for romance. Once you get to friend stage, forget it and look for romance somewhere else.
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