He ran her off but failed to call the police. He did not know what to do? I called them when I got home and filed a report with the neighbor. I was at football practice with my son and daughter. I have custody of my kids, she gets supervised visits and she has not seen the kids in about 2 months. I don't have any money, or any valuables, she took everything when we split up 10 months ago. What could she be looking for? All my court papers I keep else where. I don't have a clue what she would be looking for. any ideas to help me figure this out. Maybe she was on one of her drug induced dilousions.
Answers:
1. Vital papers, like birth certificates, social security cards, credit cards, marriage documents, or any other important document that she may be seeking to help give her some leverage in court.
2. You call
3. Maybe she left a stash there, call her up and ask if you should know of something she left behind and if it is something you can do with out have one of her friends pick it up, take away the cheese and the mouse will not come.
4. I think you should ask her. And yes, it might be the drugs
5. She was probably looking for evidence to either get the children back or she assumes you lied about money and is trying to get more
6. Maybe she wanted to take the kids or something....
7. if she was a dope head she was prob realizing the mistake while doped up wanting to correct it or thinking maybe she could score to get some more stash
8. talk to her and ask what she was doing and if she doesn't cooperate with you get a restraining order.
9. MAyBE SHE WANTED T0 SEE iF Y0U LEFT THE KiDS THERE S0 SHE KAN RUN AWAy WiTH THEM SiNCE Y0U HAVE CUST0Dy. 0R TRy AND KiLL Y0U, THEN TAKE THE KiDS.
10. Is this Kevin Federline? lol.
I was going to tell you not to involve the police since you have kids together. But, then I read that she's on drugs, so she should be in jail, anyway. She was probably looking for something to steal for drugs, honestly. It's such a shame when people use drugs. Now I bet she has nothing of value (like her kids).
11. Perhaps she couldn't find her socks
12. Im afraid she wants that shirt off your back buddy!
13. call
14. She could of been just on a random search to get any evidence that she could use against you to get custody of your children.
15. wow lol!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! out f'en loud dude wow sh must really want to f u right now and its ok
just avoied her she prob want her kids and tell your naibors to be on the look out
16. Probably just snooping around. If she tries it again, get a restraining order.
17. Kids. Or money. If drugs are involved there is no telling. Get a restraining order and make sure that her behavior is documented. It maybe necessary to show a pattern of behavior later. Good luck.
18. you said court papers, what about tax, social security birth certificate type documents. She may be looking for that stuff, perhaps to file for a loan, or get a credit card.
19. I don't understand the complete nature of your relationship with your wife but it sounds to me like she still feels entitled to something in your life. It is possible that the item(s) she wants have some monetary worth, as you suggested with the settlement talk. However, it is also very possible that she wants a particular picture of the kids or some sentimental memento she didn't manage to get through the divorce. Either way, perhaps a face to face chat is the best way to find out. Try not to be accusatory but also be firm. She did break into your house after all.
20. Yeah you got it she was Drinking!
21. As an ex-wife there really is no way to know what she was REALLY up too--I know from experience when ur feelings and ego are hurt u will do some stupid things. Things u would normally not do, but whatever her reason there is no excuse for it--it was wrong of her. What if u and the children had come home--would it have scared them? Guess she didn't even think about their feelings. Good luck!!! Just love ur kids, be happy
22. I would definitly tell the neighbours next time any of them see her around to go ahead and call the police. Let your lawyer know as well, you may need this information later on. Sorry your having to deal with this kind of a person. Have you confronted her about this? Hopefully she wasnt trying to take one of this kids or something, that is what I would prob, be worried about
23. Probably something to pawn if she has drug problems.
24. Hey it's best to sit and think about that question because you know her and her ways.
If it's not your kids she wants then it has to be money or things to sell for money.
Just a guess but aren't you glad you were not there maybe she would have tried to hurt you or the kids .
25. Truthfully, someone thats that crazy, you can't tell.
As for your neighbor, he should know that if someones trying to break into a house then he should call the police
26. get a restraing warrant easier that everything else and by lawyour priotected if she tryies that again my opion?
27. I don't know what she was looking for, but let your neighbors know that if they see her snooping around they should let her be and call the police. When they cuff her and take her away, she will stop. Also, if she is arrested it will hurt her chances of ever getting the kids back!
28. If she's on drugs, it probably was a dillusion. Somehow she put together that if you have the kids, you have money to take care of them. Which means you probably have better stuff than she does. And in that case, in her mind, she may have been looking for something to pawn.
If she wasn't on drugs, there may have been something more devious to her plan and if that's the case, get a restraining order. If you have one in place already, file for contempt.
Another thing just came to mind...did she every hide anything that she may feel that she's entitled to yet too bitter to ask for it. That's another suggestion.
IT's all just food for thought honey. You know her better than we do, all we can do is speculate.
Hope it all works out for the best.
29. She is probally trying to stash someting in your house. In an attempt to get the kiddos back, or she simply didnt know what she was doing. its very sad really.
30. If she is using she might have been looking for money or drugs. She might have been hoping you got new things she could sell or trade for drugs, because all she got before is gone. Maybe she left something there you don't know about and was wanting to get it while you was gone. Maybe she had on a kinky outfit and was going to wait for you in the bedroom, and try to make things work out again. Just be sure to have people watching and calling the police if she is caught doing that again. Call the school in case her idea is taking the kids. You can ask the police to have extra patrol for while too. I hope everything works out for you and your kids.
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