So ever since I was little my dad has always favored my little sister. It's just gotten worse as we grew up. She gets whatever she wants, when she wants it...no question asked. I get ridiculed and lectured about everything, even the type of free car I am getting. I am 22 years old and I know this shouldn't bother me anymore, but it really hurts. My fiance even told me today that he can tell how differently we are treated. I don't know what to do...has anyone else gone through this?
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1. 5 hours ago
Ya know, I asked my mom when my parents got divorced if he was really my dad, and apparently he is. I think that has a lot to do with how he treat me know too. When my parents got divorced, I chose to live with my mom and my little sis stayed with my dad.
2. I know exactly how you feel. I am the middle child even though I just two minutes older than my twin. I'm 18 and it's been going on since I was little. They are much muuuch harder on me than my older brother and younger sister. I get really good grades at college, I got a good job offer, I drive well and take car of the cars, I get scholarships, I'm pretty well rounded. But, it's never good enough for them. I am blamed for my siblings' problems like I made them do it. I feel like I have to babysit my sister cause she does a lot of stupid stuff and my parents blame me for it. They also tell me how much I'm ruining my life because of my boyfriend because he isn't as great as they want him to be. I'm already making plans to move out because I've had enough of this. Years I've been mistreated and I don't want to sit back. I'm 18 and they still try to control every aspect of my life. My relationship with my parents and family is slowly thining to nothing but there's nothing I can do when they shut me out from everything the 4 of them do. My dad also favors my other two siblings over, I'm seen as their "Smart kid" to everyone else, like I'm suppose to get them money for being successful. My boyfriend always mentions how crappy they treat me and can tell I've been slipping more into depression over the past few years. I've even been on the fence about taking anti-depressants because of how they treat me.
3. Just out of curiousity are you sure he's your dad? I'm not trying to be horrible, it happened to a friend of mine - she only found out in her 20's that her older sister was not her dads daughter. It blew her world apart.
Ask some questions, good luck & god bless.
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