I think I may like my girlfriends bestfriend. At the same time I still like my girlfriend. also things are so hard with my life I don't know what way is up. errrr IS THERE ANYONE OUT THERE WHO CAN HELP ME?
Answers:
1. Very dangerous grounds.. leave the feelings for the other girl alone... you WILL lose them both.. & thats only the beginning of your problems
2. yeah sometime this happens but i dont think you really like her i think that its just a crush an attraction, but dont show any signs it is just a faze, if you act upon it you'll regret it especially if you really are into your girlfriend, an you may think that her friend is soo good, its cause she is putting on a show in front of you, but not to impress you to show that your girlfriends friends are good so there is no drama with you not likeing her friends... well just wait for it to pass cause yeah it happens...
3. You can just like your girlfriends best friend. If you cannot put your act and thought together , you would lose everything in your relationship. For your life, I cannot help you and understand why everything is hard with you without knowing anything about it.
4. whatever you do, dont tell your girlfriend or cheat on her. if the attraction to her friend is that major and you think theres a possibility of you doing something with her, maybe you should end it with your girlfriend and let her move on to someone else... its not very fair to her and you shouldnt be flattering her best friend!!! those are feelings you should have for your girlfriend ONLY, and if you dont-- break up, stop wasting time.
5. thats funny that happen with me and my girl but my ended good in a way we had a threesome but im only one in a millon so dont try that well alll i can really tell you is that it would suck to loose that girl that you love that to loose
a girl that you never really done anything with or loved so if you cheat you loose your girl but if you tell your girl she might or might not understand depends on how unided yall are
6. what makes you say that ("i think i may like my girlfriend's bestfriend")? I'm not sure but maybe you're just confused and you might not really like her.
anyway, try to work things out with your girlfriend, assure yourself that she's the one you really like/love. if not, be honest with her so you won't waste her time on your relationship. you can't love them both at the same time. it will only create all of you big problems. for now, love your girlfriend and leave her bestfriend alone... see if you do anything stupid, you will just lose your gf and also her bestfriend..and you'll probably ruin their friendship. as you've said, things aren't so nice in your life right now so i don't think creating such mess would help you in any way.
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