I've liked this guy for 2 months and people say I'm obsessed (I'm not) and I've even asked him out and came close to kissing him. He kinda likes me but barely more than a friend. He's awesome but I can't remember the reason why I like him.. I've been trying to get over him but I cant! Plz help!
How can I get over him?
And Why do I love him so much?
Answers:
1. Why do you need a reason to like someone? It's pretty much a group of things that makes you like a person... looks, friendliness or inexplicable chemistry. It could be lots of things. No one on here will be able to tell you why you "love" him.
The best thing to do when you want to get over a guy is separate yourself from him. Refocus your life and efforts on other things... like work or school. Keep yourself busy with friends. After a while, he won't be the center of your attention anymore.
Good luck!
2. Honestly you can't get over him if you still like him. Tell him that you like him, to his face in private. Any guy would jump on that chance, If he doesn't you can be sure that he likes guys. And about the love thing, its probably not love your feeling, you probably just don't have a good word for what you feel.
3. Yea I have the same problem only Ive like this person for over a year now and its killing me. I dont think you love him, your just infatuated. I dont know how you can get over him but I dont think you can just do something to stop likeing someone.
4. Prepare a piece of paper and write down like:
The good points of him that attracts me:
1-
2-
3-...
ask yourself What did he do that i liked... what did he say to me or..
then you will find out why you like him
Then, to decide whether try to get closer or get over him ask other types of questions:
1-Am I attractive to him?
2-Can I make him closer to myself?
3-Whats the worse thing that can happen if I lose him?
4-whats the best thing that can happen if i have him?
5-How many of other guys or even better guys are out there for me if I pay attention around myself...
...
then put some plus and minus points
finally you will find out what to do ;)
good luck.
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