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I have a serious problem... I'm a 35 male and my 34 sister hit on me. I feel pretty shook up about this.?

   
What do I do, Tell her off? I'm not prepared for this

Answers:

1. no she didn't. that is sick!!! i don't think she really hit on you.

2. Is she a step sister?

3. wow creepy, i think u need to just set things straight, just let her know that u 2 r related nothing can or will happen

4. What did she say? Was she joking around? Tell her it makes you uncomfortable. If it continues don't go around her anymore

5. Tell her the truth. You aren't comfortable with this kind of action from her and she needs to quit! Some siblings think it is perfectly okay to flirt with each other but you don't so let her know asap!

6. your sister hit on you! wtf?! thats soo wrong.. eck i'd tell her off or tell her to get some help.

7. Ask her what the hell her problem is. Its called Incest.

8. tell her not to ever do it again

9. Oh dear Lord! My heart is so crushed for you...Did you kid's have a screwed up young life? would like to email with you...

10. What part of Kentucky are y'all from?

11. Is she a step sister? If not i would tell her that she needs help.I would talk to some one that you can trust.

12. Wow! That's heavy. I would be upset too. I don't blame you for being upset, you have every right to feel the way you do. This is not normal. You need to put her in her place. You are both adults and you need to tell her something like this: "Look, you are my sister, and I think of you as my sister, that's it. What you did made me feel very uncomfortable. I don't want this to affect our relationship as brother and sister. I expect an apology and a promise to never try that again. In the meantime, you need some counseling". Your sister definitely has misplaced feelings. She obviously loves you. Her love for you as her brother is undefined. Her love does not have any borders, which there should be. She needs to see a counselor to help her define what she feels, so she can once again set her own boundaries and limitations. Get her into counseling if you can. In the meantime, you have to set them for her. Take care my friend, and good luck.

13. Are you sure you didnt misinterpert what she was trying to say/do?

14. You're 35 & you don't know what to do? That doesn't make sense to me. If this was for real you would know EXACTLY what to do.

15. um if you are really serious then.......talk to her about it....she your real sister? if she is then maybe she has a problem...like mentally