well I found on here that well my ex was asking he wants to be with other girls sexually becuase "I am not showing him enough attention" when it is because I have developed depression.......and I am very stressed out. So when I found out he was asking how to keep the peace with me becuase he wants to be with other girls...I told him he is crazy and to stay away from me. How do I work this. I am not going to talk to him anymore but when do I let him see the baby..I dont think he needs to be there when I give birth. I know this sounds young and stupid but I have never dealt with anything like this before. Help!!
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1. Oh sweetie I'm sorry. I know what its like to be pregnant and stressed out. Your boyfriend or ex-boyfriend must be young, otherwise he'd know that its not about him right now. Try expressing that to him. Let him know that your full of different emotions right now, fear, happiness, anxiety and uncertainty . Tell him you need him right now, being a father doesn't start after you have the baby it starts right now. I'd hate for you to go through this alone you don't deserve to and neither should you have to. Even if you guys aren't gonna be together he still has responsibility and make him own up to them.
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