My grandfather was in the military and my dad's family thought that serving was beneath them. They hated them and they hate me because i'm named after him. They have treated me like crap since I was little yelling at me screaming at me and tell me i'm not good enough for them and they hate my mother because she cleans apartment complexes. My grandmother stole & spent my dad's inherithence money. I HATE MY FAMILY!!! How should I break away from them?
Answers:
1. If you're old enough, move?
2. try living with a friend
3. are you still at school?if you are....put all your concentration into your schooling then get your self to college and uny .and have the life you want.....in peace....................good luck
4. Well depending on how old you are you can always move away. But if not just talk about it to a school psychologist or even tell your parents how you feel.
5. You know, that sounds somewhat familiar with me and my family. But a different situations. Anyway dont talk to them, try to stay away from them as much as possible. If you are young and still live with family then move as far away as possible when you are old enough too..if you want to break away from them
6. First have no contact with them. They can't P@@@ you off if you simply have nothing to do with. They can't yell, insult anyone or hurt your feelings if you don't see them.
Second, if you do kind of like them, explain how you feel to them and try to talk it out first.
For me, I just quit dealing with the idiots in my family and I am much much happier.
7. That's awful! I think you should get counselling for the rejection you feel. When you are old enough & find the right person for you, start your own family!! God Bless!
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