It became apparent I am a loser. This grdae 12 yesterday offered a high five, and like what most people do, lifted it up and said "to slow". Don't call me weird I am familiar with the trick. But today did the same thing and as I was walking away I heard "That kid's a retard". And In Ethical living the class was divided, guys and girls, and we had to total up how many dates we've been on or friends been on. The total was 69 (feel free to laugh). But me and another guy were the only ones that have never gone on a date. I do know people who have gone on dates. But even people who were like nerds or whatever had been on dates. What should I do? Any Help would be great
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Answers:
1. Mate your measuring yourself up with everyone else, yeah peope like nerds and dorks etc may have had dates but simplify it down, there people right? and everyone has different tastes so some girls like the nerdy types and others like the footballer/athletic types, dont beat yourself up because you aint had a date life can be hard but you will get one, its inevitable, just go talk to girls, get to know them you would be surprised at what would happen, hope i helped, good luck.
2. You are really young...and I'm sure you have a lot going for you. Don't worry about what everyone says...are you sure all those people were being honest?? Maybe there weren't, maybe they just wanted to look good in front of everyone, maybe they didn't want people to make fun of them. You were honest..and you told the truth. Trust me...your time will come!! Good luck.
3. When I was in high school, I had very low self-esteem regarding girls. I had three dates during the whole time. Now, years later, I find out that a lot of girls would have liked to go out with me. I didn't know.
I know there are girls who would like to go out with you. Just ask.
By the way. One of the girls I did go out with was the right one. How about that!
4. dating is not a big deal. no one in the clique i hang out w/ dates, & were perfectly happy that way. as for being called a retard: ignore them. if they c theyre not bugging u theyll quit. beleive me- it works!
5. you are not a bloody loser hun, don't say that! that kid obviously thinks he's being cool doing things like that..i really hate pathetic arses like that..ooo i wanna come and chin him! Tell billy big **** to jog on haha that'll shut him up,x
I tell you what i havent ever been on a proper date and im 25, they sound awful all that awkwardness so you are not missing out hun, your time will come, dont worry about these things they do come in time i promise you. I f you do want to try a date out have you got a close girl mate or a girl you like, go for it and ask them out, good luck sweetie.xxxx
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