My dad is not my dad.I am much older now and have the desire to find my real dad.It is more just about seeing him than meeting him .I guess its curiosity...whats he look like etc.He has known where Ive been my entire life and has not found me or tried to contact me.I do not want to disrupt his life would just like to see where I came from.Anyone know how to go about that?Im new to the internet and need all the help I can get.Thanks!
Answers:
1. I think you put this question in the wrong subject.
sorry I couldnt help
2. I would write a letter or call him. You should at least try. Dont spend your life wondering.
3. After 24 years .... YOUR DAD IS YOUR DAD!!! Don't
de-value or diminish what YOUR DAD had been to you for
the past 24 years .... Just because you found out that someone else donated the sperm. If you HAD NO IDEA ... then that means that YOUR DAD loves you very much ... and AGAIN he is your DAD.
Whomever gave you the information about the sperm donor
and that he has known about you all along ... Can that person,
(I assume either or Mom or Dad) give you additional information that would help you to locate him??? If not,
then take whatever information that you have and google
"How to find biological parent"
I will tell you that from everything that I have heard ... People
often idealize the "absent parent" and are sometimes
disappointed when they actually meet them ... I hope that does not happen to you.
All the best to you .... And I hope you remember how blessed
you are to have had the Dad that you grew up with!
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