Hey guys i need some big big help.
I'm 13 years old, and im in 7th grade, and last year, in 6th grade, i was the coolest kid around, and nobody stood up to me and stuff. but this year i'm not even as cool as those kids nobody hangs around, i'm not gettin invite to parties, stuff like that. I dunno what i need to do better but im just not up there any more, and like all my friends chill durin lunch so i guess maybe i should with them more? but still i mean i need some tips or somethin cuz some of my friends are like, "man you goin to that party? and i like, "what party?" I mean it's awful, I'm out of everything, can't get a gf, but i just need to get connected again. What should i do?
Answers:
1. Ok, instead of saying the classic "Popularity isn't everything" or "Don't worry about what other people think" and just leaving it at that, I'm going to tell you more.
I think that seventh grade is the grade where most people's personality and looks go through changes. What I would suggest doing is ask someone that knew you last year what they think has changed about you. And if you want even more clarification ask someone else, but don't ask too many people because then it'll be obvious that you want to be back in the scene.
Don't worry, we all have our ups and downs and even though it may seem like it'll never end, just think about this : You have to be at the very bottom at one point or another in order to get to the very top.
Good Luck!
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