my choir teacher is very upset because the man she loved for over a year didnt love her the same way so she broke up with him....she said she tries to call him but he dosent pick up the phone and when she sends him e-mails he never replies to her she was crying about it because she said that all her friends are married and are in committed relationships but she isnt and shes 26 years old and shes single we all tryed to help but she told us she was ok were kinda worried about her what should we do to help her?
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1. 6 hours ago
btw...were an 8th and 7th grade class she was telling us this so we wont get into a relationship with a stupid guy and she wants us to find a guy that dosent treat us like her boyfriend treated her.
2. 6 hours ago
we told her to talk to the counsuler and she said she didnt want to talk to them about it and she dosent talk about personal things everyday it was just because we wernt listning to her and she told us to go look up at herpicture wall and the picture of her and her boyfriend was gone and kids asked what happend and it made her emotinal and cry and yes we did sing that day we didnt spend the whole class period with snotty tissues everywhere!
3. Hey babe,
You can't do anything to help her out and surprisingly you would know this. I understand that some relationships with teachers and students are very close but, it doesnt mean you have the right to get into her life nor does she have the right to let you in. This is personal business she might need to talk over with someone else.
4. I would get your class together and do something to show her that you all appriciate her and love her. Throw her a little party, make a card, you're in a choir class-sing her a song. Just a little something to show her you all care will probably cheer her up a bit!
5. The kindest thing would be to just leave her alone. You aren't in a position to help her. And frankly, at 26, she ought to know better than to bring her personal problems into the classroom --it's very unprofessional for her to involve you in her arguments with her boyfriend. I know it makes you feel grown-up and friendly with her, but she crossed a fine line between being friendly and being too personal.
6. tell her the sea is full of fish. why settle for someone who does'nt love you. look around, get to know other guys, flirt with single guys shes attracted to, then maybe go on a date . and most tell her to give the guy sign a clue that your intrested, that way he'll make his move.
7. I'm 26 and a teacher, and I find it a bit inappropriate that she is sharing these details of her personal life with her class. It's sweet that you care about her, and that you want to help her, but that's the problem. Her job is not to unload herself on her students, but to teach you, and clearly you're learning more about her personal life than about singing. You might want to discuss with your parents or your school counselor that your teacher is sharing this stuff with her class, because sweety, you make like her a lot and care about her, but she's using you guys inappropriately for sympathy.
8. No matter how sweet a teacher is, shes telling you about her personal life when the best thing teachers show you is not to bring outside problems to work and vice-versa.
You might be asking a question thats noble, but shes just going to get over it like we all do.
9. she needs help from a person her own age or older. not a good idea to have told you kids. If this is a concern for you talk to the school counselor and ask her to help this teacher.
10. gurl.... you just keep om encouraging her! besides if you be there for her, i bet she will be there for you.
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