I have no idea. Help...I met my boyfriend through richmingle.com years ago. But recently he told me that he has been thinking about his ex-girlfriend who was his first love. He says that he truly loves me and the only reason that he even thought about her was because she sent him a card on his birthday. He said that he'll be getting help, but is there any point in putting myself through this? I love him, too, and he's my first love and I don’t want to lose him.
Answers:
1. What kind of "help" is he going to get?
2. Talk to him about that
3. if hes thinking about her, you tell him that if he doesnt get his act together and get her out of his head, than your gone.
4. If he has to get help to get over her- there's a problem. Don't you want to be someone's #1? Not just who they are with because the other girl isnt there? I would try and space myself for a while- just until he gets thisfigured out....
you deserve to be with someone who thinks enough of you- that the thought of an ex wouldn't phase him, you know?
good luck....
5. If you guys are having a proper relationship, not online i mean, treat it as if you would normally treat it.. move on, its over because he already hinted it. if you are in a online relationship.. still, move on
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