My boyfriend just broke my nose what should I do?

1. 6 hours ago
it's easy to say leave him but it isn't that easy when I love him so much.

2. 6 hours ago
yes it was abuse but the stupid thing is that I still love him.

3. 6 hours ago
The police have arrested him but I feel realy bad and I don't know what to do.

4. 6 hours ago
I did hit him back but 2 wrongs don't make a right surely.

5. 6 hours ago
I'm 27 and I've always been in violent relation ships and I think that maybe it is my fault for standing up for myself. I think that mabe I should just stay quiet and then it wont happen.

6. Since it was abuse, i say leave him. You gotta have some self dignity and be able to fight for yourself. you can do much better. find a man who loves every part of you and would be afraid to lose you.

7. Honey, If he broke your nose, I dont care what the hell you say you shouldn't be with him. If he loved you as much as you love him then he would NEVER lay a hand on you. If you choose to stay with him that's on you.

8. If some girl broke your son's legs, what would you want your son to do? Wake up and leave her. Right?

9. Yes it is easy for us to say leave him.Think on this though he broke your nose this time next time he might take your life.

10. look you have opened pandoras box, if he hit you once he iwll hit you again, and if you love him and he stays with you do yourself a favor and dont reproduce. can you imagine what he would do if the baby started crying nonstop? do yourself a favor, leave him, its not love darling, people do not hit people if they love them unless your 5 on the playground at school. my advice take a frying pan to his face see how he likes it.

11. I understand you love him and its hard, but you need to be strong and think, "What's best for me?" I don't think a broken nose is what is best for you. It is hard to leave someone you love, especially when they say they're sorry and they will change, and people do change... but I wouldn't be taking him back until you see the change, if at all. (if this happens..) Stay strong. Keep your distance. Usually (unfortunately), this is likely to happen again. If he really loved you, he wouldn't hurt you. You deserve someone who will treat you with respect and love- a broken nose isn't love. Good luck and be strong!

12. if you cant leave him. then all i can tell you is stay around and let him kill you. that might come next. get out while you still can. he evidentally doesnt love you.

13. This is domestic abuse. Today it was your nose, next time, he might kill you. Leave him far behind and be sure to file a protection order against him spelling out he cannot come within 200 feet of you.

14. i just hope you 2 losers never have kids. grow A BACK BONE LADY!

15. Sometimes our emotions are stupid and confuse us... in fact, they confuse us all the time. Sometimes you can't listen to emotions though and take a step back and look at the problem logically. Your Boyfriend hit you... hard enough to break your nose. He abused you and he is in jail because of it. This is not a loving and caring man, no matter what you FEEL about it, abuse is a abuse and it most likely won't be a "one time thing" Just listen to your own logic and do what you know is right.

16. KICK HIS ASSK http://youtube.com/watch?v=ets7fujwtvs...

17. it is very hard when you love someone..it really is but you cant let a man do that to you, if a friend did it to you would you still stay friends with them???i know i wouldnt, i would have lamped them back and that would have been the end of that. you need to be strong and not be a punchbag and walk away...while you've got the chance, you can do it..be strong and walk.x

18. you're not the one who needs help. HE is. get that guy into Anger Management counseling. if he doesn't get his emotions under control, it'll get worse over time.

19. GET OUT!!!!!! and go some were you will be safe. We can not help you. You have to do it for you.good luck.

20. RUN! Stay away from the loser.

21. All these people gave you good advice. That's what you're looking at--more abuse, then possibly death. I won't tell you to have self-respect, because you feel helpless and yet you know love does not have the results of what the man does to you. Love would be very kind and gentle. For me the turning point came, when I became so sad of being despised by the man and so abused, that I thought: I won't be anymore with an abusive person, because God loves me and wants better for all His creation. When I walked away, I did not regret it. Although my nose was not broken, my heart and my spirit almost were. It will take me a long time to open my heart again to a man, because I allowed these terrible things to be done to me. It's never too late to start over. Now I am safe and I thank God each night for giving me peace and rest. I am satisfied with my life and enjoy every day now. No more sadness in my soul.

22. Face reality.You have two choices. Leave him now or get smacked ,punched and beaten for the rest of your life.I assume you are an adult . The choice is yours. I will personally guarantee you that the beatings will never stop. P.S. If he beats you just imagine what he will do to your children.

23. i know its not easy to leave but its the best thing to do... if he loved you as much as you love him he wouldnt have hit you

24. Yes, leaving him will be hard. But really, you pretty much have to at this point. Yes, you'll mourn. However, next time he might kill you, and mourning is better than being dead.

25. I would urge you to get your boyfriend some counselling, it sounds like he has an anger problem, you shouldnt let him hit you like that,or anyone for that matter.