Ten months ago, I broke up with my boyfriend. We had had a wonderful relationship, but come winter break, he went away to another state. Upon his return, he was a totally different person and completely ignored me, thus forcing me to dump him. He seems completely fine after all this time, but I still find some feelings for him. My friends have tried their best, and I hide it now, but I can't like anyone and I can't stop myself from staring at him in class.
What can I do? And don't say "it takes time." I've waited ten months and I need a temporary fix while I wait for time to scab over this wound.
Answers:
1. Try to understand what he gave you that was so important. Was it a feeling? He is not the source of the feeling you are. He is the trigger. Find in yourself the love for yourself that can provide this sense in yourself. If you follow the feeling back you will find the door to yourself that will immediately dissolve the relationship between this feeling and this person. Good Luck
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