He's a year older. I don't have a chance with him, I thought he was flirting last semester but I guess I'm wrong--he never asked me out. I can't stop thinking about him...why do guys act like this? I'm trying to get over him, and I kind of hate him for this.
Answers:
1. Oh boy have i been there!
i dont know if there is an exact way to get over a guy. except stay busy and truly try to move on. within time you will.
just know things happen for a reason... and who knows what the future holds
2. aww im sorry, happens to the best of us. =[
i dont know why they do that, but i really wish that they wouldnt!
the only way you can get over him is by going out there and finding yourself a new guy!
3. Just let it go! Go out, meet new people, keep busy, hang out with your friends.. and you'll soon forget about him. Who knows, a new guy may come along soon, too!
As for why do guy act like this? Because for the most part they are oblivious when it comes to things like this. Just like guys think girls are complicated, so are they. You may think that they are thinking one thing but really-its the complete opposite. Its so confusing but you get use to it-- lol.
4. you might of mistaken firting for him jsut being nice or maybe he does like you but he thinks you dont like him so he never bothered to ask you out. so unless he told you personaly he doesnt like you you dont know. so i would go up and tell him hey i like you your hot what about we go grab some food. its worth a shot its better then regretting it.
5. Listen, if I were young again (semester gives it away) I would tell myself this.
Stop obsessing. What you are doing is WASTING YOUR PRECIOUS TIME fixated on someone who isn't thinking about you, at all. Actually, boys/young men don't really think about girls, or their feelings and overcomplicated relationships they are thinking about boobies and having sex with most anyone, and or all girls in between their studies, their families, and their interests.
Guys are just opposite from girls, they think more single mindedly, less dramatics. Just imagine how much time you can waste obsessing while this guy goes on to become a doctor at 30.
If I were you, I would look in the mirror and wonder to myself, if this a pattern? If so, you can always change a pattern. (Also cool, smart, interesting chicks with good focus and confidence are what attracts the best guys with equal amounts to offer.)
Good luck.
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