My ex and i broke up four years ago. we were good friends.
until she go a boyfriend. then she change for the worst.
for years i supported her. even after our relationship ended.
if she need money,she got it. if she need a baby siter i was there.
i did everything a real man would do for his woman.
she has 3 children the third one is mind. i treat her kids
the same way i treat my son. i love all three the same way.
she doe's not appreciate anything i do for her. now that the new
guy is not what she expected, she's on the verge of leaving him soon. should i help her after she brakes up whith this guy? or just take care of my three sons and move on.
Answers:
1. Take care of your kids and yourself and move on. There are a lot of women out there who would appreciate a guy like you!!!
2. Time to move on and put this behind you.
3. Those kids need a mother figure, but they don't need more concerning family issues.
4. I would say if you adopted her son's, to take care of them and move on. If they are not yours then you are under no financial obligation. I would not help her unless you are prepared to get nothing in return for it. She may very well accept your help and then move on and find another guy. If you go into it knowing this and still choose to do it, at least you won't be surprised by the outcome.
5. First off, there are MANY different types of women and it isn't nice to catogarize all of us to be known to treat good, real men badly.
She seems like a woman who isn't ready to settle down, and she seems to be only using you to the best of her benefit...
You sound like you really love her and your children, and you should!
She sounds like she needs a wake-up call about what she's doing to herself and how she's influencing her children, because it seems as though she has no idea what kind of impact she has on them.
An intervention with her would be a good way to show her that you care about her. Tell her, that you care about her, but that if she cares about herself and her children, she would wake up, y'know?
I hope I helped!
<3 La Reina
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