My bro and SIL are planning a trip on the disney cruise. It was just way to expensive for me and my family to go and my boys are really young and would never remember. But my daughter who is 16 really wanted to go.
Then Sunday my parents decide they want to go. Well my daughter still wanted to go so I told her to call grandma and ask if she can go with them. By the time the cruise comes she will be 2 weeks shy of her 17th birthday.
Well my SIL freaked out and started saying my daughter was not going, this is her family vacation and do I realize how much money i paid for my family to go on vacation, and your daughter is going to ruin it.
And was swearing and yelling. Then after my brother was calling me and yelling and swearing at me.
What the hell did I do wrong to deserve any of this? Because I wanted my daughter to go and my parents said it was okay!
Answers:
1. 6 hours ago
my bro and sil invited us but i said we couldn't because it would be like 8,000 and i couldn't afford that and I would be paying her way 803.00 way better!
2. 6 hours ago
they invited my parents too! And they were not going to go. But My SIL parents are going and my mom said she then felt pressured to go. So they decided to. But she has her friends going too! I told her your worried about my mom having to babysit my almost 17 yr old you don't want that because you want them to babysit your parents so you can go and hang with your friends.
I was so upset. Then she said she was going to wait for my bro to get home and put me in my place. Then he calls and starts yelling telling me he is sick of my **** and when i tried telling him what his wife said he told me he didn't want to hear anything from me. The best part is they are about 4 years older than me. I know my SIL doesn't like me because I dated her nephew for 10 years and lived with him for 7 years and after supporting him for 6 years I broke up with him and moved on. And it pisses her off. Because he is still a loser getting DUI's and I got married and had a fmaily and hosue and everything!
3. tell your sil that she is going with your parents. to but out. if your parents doesnt mind taking her and being responsible for her then let them worry about it. sil's can be that way sometimes.
4. who paid for ur daughter?
did ur bro/SIL invited u or ur family?
whether u pd for ur daughter or not or u were invited or not, your bro and SIL should've handled it like a grown mature person instead of swearing and yelling at you. good luck this thanksgiving.
5. Your brother and sil are JERKS!!
Its up to your parents, not them!!
6. Your poor daughter! She would be so excited about going on the cruise - I can't believe your SIL would be so heartless! I'm guessing your SIL doesn't really want your parents along either but she can't say or do anything without upsetting them, instead she has focused her anger on you & your daughter.
Explain that your daughter is going with her grandparents and that they will still go if your brother & she pull out of the plans. They will eventually realise how petty they are being and how immature it looks.
Good luck, I hope your daughter has a wonderful time.
7. Plan a vacation for just you and your kids. Invite no one else and don't even tell anyone else of your plans. Just go on vacation.
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