In fact, he left me for someone else he got pg. Why do I still feel guilty? We were together 7 years since I was 15 and yeah he is still the only partner I've had but I feel guilty when I am talking to other guys even though I want someone in my life.
Answers:
1. That's cause you're not over him yet.
so you still think that you're taken.
2. Because you have developed a personality construct which used him within your own sense of identity. These neurons will gradually break free and will reconstruct over time. By all means you should not feel guilty since guilt is a result of your own judgment against yourself. The question is what is doing the judging? That is the doorway into a greater sense of yourself and for greater freedom and happiness. This you can bring into the next relationship you have and it will be much more intimate and healthy.
3. Life is too short for you too be alone so get out there and meet someone new and start to enjoy your life again.. It's because you were with him so long the way you are feeling ...
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