My Boyfriend is currently on probation for a felony, and was put on this at the age of 16. He is now 18, and is all but done with school. His probation officer said that he was allowed to move in with me into my parent's house, but same rules and restrictions would still apply. His mother will not let him move in with me until he is done with school, but she is also trying to push the idea of getting his own place instead. He wants to move in with me, and my family loves him. I tried everything I could to change her mind, because he is not happy there and he wants to leave. She also trys to ground him for little things, appearing to me that she wants to seperate us. I tried explaining to her that probation is allowing it, but no effects or comments were said. I have stated the problem, He wants to move in, Probation allows it, what do you think?
Thanks
Answers:
1. Hello, this situation is even more complicated then what it seems. First, line of advice is for you to drop the issue because you've already stated what you want. You, don't want to be in a situation where you're competing with his mother. Ultimately it's his decision and you can believe that he will do exactly what he wants to do. Your main concern should be to support his decision when he makes it. When it's all said and done you want a stronger relationship that will grow despite this situation. That will be determined by how well you can understand, support and provide a happy space for him. More at www.onistsense.com
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