(im 15) every night my gf and i have had the same routine for about 6 month to 1 year.......we talk on th im until late at night and then say our goodbyes ....i say "i love you" she says it back.there was one night i said i love you and all she said was " night" and now she makes sure we never say goodbyes at night(for the past three weeks)............WHAT THE HELL DOES THAT MEAN
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1. 55 minutes ago
mabe ididdnt make my point clear..........i think she doesnt want me to tell her i love her
2. she needs her sleep probably so leave her alone for a while then say goodbye's again
3. How would we know? Ask her. You will only get speculation on here! Good luck.
4. Well if you have been doing that for 6 to 12 months maybe she wants a change.
5. Sounds to me she doesn't love you anymore, if she's not saying it.
6. I think you should ask her nicely, not in an accusatory way.
Just as a "I was wondering, ....." way. Pay attention to her words and her body language, you'll see what she is trying to say. Good luck!
7. it could mean a lot of things... maybe someone is monitoring her while she is on the computer.. another reason could be that she is trying to distance her self from you to make a brake up less hurtful for the both of you. you need to ask her this question. your 15yrs you need to know, nothing good last forever.
8. I think you should try and maybe do something a little different. Anytime a relationship gets into a routine and there is nothing else exciting it could get old. Or, not for nothing if that may not work it could be time to say goodbye to the relationship. You are still young and have soo much to experiance in your life. But if you and your g.f are not content in a relationship it could lead to disaster. Some people also get scared when the I love you's come out. I think you should ask her whats the deal because if you dont know how eachother feel you will never know. We are not mind readers. So you should definetly ask her about it. Best of luck hope could help
9. just say the goodbyes for a while not to long ...........she might break up with you ........she probably needs space right now ..........if she doesn't come up and say something about it then nicely ask her lol
P.S. im 15 too ^^b (thumbs up)
................................. oh yea we are cool
10. try this out.. just say good night and dont add the I love you part for a while and see how it goes.. not to offend you but its possible that you are over using the phrase and she is tired of always reminding you that she loves you. if 2 people love each other they can feel it and see it in the others eyes and dont always have to say it... sometimes when someone says it too often it starts to feel like a trap.. so give her some room to breath.. and remember that you are only 15 there are so many other people out there to learn from... good luck.
11. my friend... your still 15 and everything can happen...
on the case of you gf... maybe she is being watched by her parents when you said that... that is why she did not replied...
dont be paranoid by that... you will experience a lot of problems in the future...
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