My boyfriends wears ugly cloths and he has long blonde hair and an ugly bandana how can I change him w.o changin him and help him out w.o hurting his feelings.
Answers:
1. if it bugs you that much.. end it
2. find an outfit for him that you want him to wear. as a guy, i like it when someone says something will look good on me.
3. tell him, "wow! this shirt would look great on you!" and give it to him because 'your brother didn't fit in to it' or something. tell him. you know i'll always like you for you, but maybe if you got your hair cut you'd look even cuter!" hope i helped!
4. tell him how you feel and that you would like it if he dressed up al lil more...if he refuses, end it
5. do not change him....'
lUv him the way he is
hope that helps
mah
6. how old is your bf? how old are you? if he is adult and still goes on with his dirty lifestyle then you might try telling him health benifits of hygenice lifestyle.. i can't say much about ugly bandana though, you may get him a 'pretty' bandana or just buy him a cool cap. Avoid hitting him or throwing things at him while trying to do all of the above mentioned things and I bet he wouldn't get hurt. Best of luck....
7. if u realy liked him u wudnt care how he was.
i think if it bugs u so much break up wit him.
8. ....than why are you going out with him?
DUHH. silly goose.
9. buy him somthing you like as a gift then give it to him for like his b-day or christmas, or even a month aniversary. If you buy him somehting he will most llkely wear it. But of course you cant get him to stop what he does without telling him flatt out, you dont have to but instead have someone else do it for you, like a friend or relative close to you. no matter how you tell him tho it will hurt his feelings because imagine if someone told you that you dressed poorly.... just dont be too harsh on him, take it one step at a time
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