I have a friend who is alittle on the large side and he says he doesn't try to get a girlfriend because he knows they will reject him. But this guy the nicest kid I've ever met...is there any hope for him?
Answers:
1. I would give it a try.
Yes, there is. Looks aren't the most important.
Plus, he could slim down. :P
2. what do you mean by large? like 200 pounds large or a little on da chubby side. if was atleast semi cute and had a good personality maybe i wud post a pic of him and i will get bak to ya on dat
3. Sure...
4. heavens yes, there is hope for him.
sounds like he has an inner beauty that the right gal hasn't found yet.
"nice" makes up for many physical flaws. with time, beauty fades.... but meanness intensifies!
5. sure if he was outgoing and stuff. of course there's hope for him, there's someoone out there for everyone.
6. If he was kinda chubby I would. But he would have to have a cute face, dress nice, a sense of humor, really good personality, and not be insecure.
Now if he was like obese - I wouldn't date him. We could just be friends.
7. tell him to slim down if he thinks thats his problem. but ive liked big guys b4 if there funny.make u smile. and r nice. but slimming down definitly cud not gurt, but if he lost a couple lbs maybe he cud alottt more girls...ya nvr kno. tell him to try and get out there
8. yes- looks may help, but it's definitely personality that keeps a girl
best of luck to your friend
9. honestly i couldnt date someone fat even if i totally loved their personality, this sounds really shallow but i cant even imagine myself having sex with a fatty
10. OFCOURSE!!!!!!
my boyfriend is on the cuddly side and i love him to death! i wouldnt replace him for anyone else.. ever ever ever =]
i reckon larger guys can be really sensitive people and you know how much girls love sensitive guys =]
the best part is, he wont have to suffer with a girl who'll use him and hurt him.. he's probably going to straight out find a girl who will love him for everything he is and someone he can do the same with... besides.. maybe its a good thing he isnt too desperate looking now because in time, he'll find the person person! theres someone for everyone - no matter how you look or sound...
by the way.. tell him to never loose his personality.. looks fade in time but your sense of humour, caring nature and personality are always there to stay =]
11. Being a large guy myself, I feel qualified to answer this.
Even in our "enlightened" era, in male-female relationships, it almost *always* has to start with the guy.
There's hope for him, but only if he pursues someone he's interested in. If he can work up to that, then there is somebody who will love him regardless of his appearance.
In he never goes for it, there's not really much hope.
12. Yeah everyone deserves a chance, and it doesn't matter if someone is plump or thin....
13. Yes! He should never give up on finding that special someone! His weight should not be an issue, the right person will love him for who he is not what he looks like. Good luck!
14. I don't care much for looks. If he's nice and has a big heart, a sense of humor, etc. I wouldn't give it a second thought.
15. i dont know maybe...my uncle is big too and girls stick their tongues down his throat all the time!!
16. I think in modern era personality is the matter. A candidate having good personality is better than a absured and smart person. That's why my spot the a fat but personality holder person. Girls must date them.
17. nope. sry im shallow
18. Any girl worth having is going to look past his size and see him for what he is. He will make some girl very happy someday. Tell him not to take any B/S off her though.
19. getting to know someone is more important than their looks. that just shows that you worry about what other people will think which you shouldnt. if he is a good guy and you like him, wahts the problem?
20. The worst things that girls can say is ''no'' and if he has self-confidence then she should just be another bug on the windowshield of life...because all that she is seeing is the outside and that isnt what matters at all
21. Yes I would, but thats really not saying much for the rest of the worlds population because no matter how smart, kind, or funny you are society now days brainwashed us into thinking whats hot and whats not. Most people if given the choice choose beauty over personality which I dont get the point of but they do because they are so ignorant and care soo much of what people think of them.
But like I said MOST of the worlds population there are some people out there that dont care about things like that (me being one of them) so yes I think there is still hope for your friend. :D
22. unless a guy is morbidly skinny or morbidly far, i would give any NICE guy a chance.
(i really shy away from unhealthy ppl)
i don't know... fat guys on here don't believe when a girl says that she is pretty and has dated a fat guy before.
i'm one of them.
not all girls are shallow.
i LOVE big guys! :D
23. well yea, what girl wouldn't love a guy with a great personality? that's one of the things i love about my boyfriend, he has a great personality and always knows how to cheer me up! :)
~Jaz
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