would you want a husband that didnt?
would you not allow yourself to get to know a guy that wasnt a virgin?
or is it only your own that you are concerned with
for the record I am unique in knowing a few men and women refraining from engaging, I am interested more in the answers from outside the group I am familiar with
Answers:
1. I'm saving myself for marriage.. and... it wouldn't stop me form marring a guy if he wasn't a virgin. but it would sure make it more "special"
2. I wouldn't want a man that isn't a virgin, and I wouldn't want to get to know one. I don't really know why, though. I know I'm scared to be with someone more experienced than me. I'd like to be on equal ground with him, and I'd like him to have wanted to same himself for his wife too.
3. Yes, I'm saving myself for marriage, it's not as important for my guy to be a virgin as it is for myself. I think it's great if a guy is a virgin but if he's not that's fine too, it's not a determining factor when considering a serious relationship. Do you really look like that?
4. i dk.. I'm a virgin.. i'm not sure that i'm saving myself for marriage.. but i've refrained from getting to close to a guy because i knew all the things he had done.. I would date a guy that wasn't a virgin.. but i would rather end up with a virgin.
5. I think it's better for a guy to not be a virgin, that way he can be more assertive on his wedding night
6. I always planned on saving myself for marriage.. for both personal and religous reasons, however it is only recently that I have been considering going all the way (with my boyfriend of 8 months).. he is also a virgin but not interested in saving himself for marriage.. i'm kinda going through an internal battle right not, to sleep with him or not to sleep with him.
I do feel that if I manage to somehow make it through and save myself for marriage, that i would also want my husband to be a virgin.. if not i would feel a bit cheated. And though i would def. prefer him to be a virgin, lets be realistic. As you get older, the number of virgins are going to go down.. and down and down lol (i'm only 20 btw). By saying i wouldn't marry a guy unless he's a virgin, well i'd be cutting out most of my dating options. So i probably would accept him, even though as i said before I would definitely prefer a guy who's a virgin.
7. You will find it is but of little importance after you start doing it...quality will win out, but that takes experience to get it GOOD.
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