Last Summer My Dad died. : ( it was the 2nd to last day of school everyone says it gets better WHEN it has been what seems years i know my dad died i should not be happy but it has been a while i think it should be better than this! i think of him every day at least 9 times a day and every time i do think of him i cry my mom really took this hard and she is in a way better mental state than iam. i miss him but at the same time i want to move on somewhat what is a girl to do please help iam living in a total HE*L!!!!!
Answers:
1. Corey,
That's hard to live with. You and your mom should talk to a grief counselor at a church. They can help you work through your emotions. You need to learn how to deal with them instead of just being sad about them. Once you meet them head-on you can heal faster. Good Luck.
2. You should be able to savor the memory of your father without going into an emotional relapse. Try reading your bible(I recommend Psalms)and see if that doesn't strengthen you a little. Maybe if you can see some of your father's character in the bible it would be less of a loss. Try reading some proverbs too,especially proverbs 31. I'm sure you're father was a wonderful person. If you would like someone to pray with you, you can call 1-800-759-0700 lol
3. It is always hard to loose a parent. You love him very much, to help get through the heartache, try to remember some of the good times you had. Every time you are having sad thoughts about his Passing, just think of a happy memory, funny things he did or said, or places that you would go whatever happy times you had together. this will help you move on, while keeping him with you at the same time.
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