my parents have a rule called one up one down were i can only date someone either one year older than me or younger and i am 14 well this 18 asked me out and i said no but he still always walks me to all of my classes and hugs me and stuff i want to tell him to go away but he is a really sensitive guy so i dont want to hurt him but its getting creepy and if i dont talk to him or hug he gets in my face and wonders what is wrong, help me keep him away and how can i tell him to stay away?!!!!!!!!! PLZ he is almost stalker-ish
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1. 6 hours ago
I mean what else does a senior want with a freshman girl to get in their pants Duh! And he kepts telling me to go behind my parents, but I tell you now my mother knows everyone in the small town that I live in.
2. get your friends to call him a stalker.
3. just tell him the problem and he will probably leave you alone.
4. Tell him in a note or letter, that you don't want to have a relationship with him. If it still consists, talk to your school counselor or principal.
5. ask a friend to tell him to back off
6. He sounds like a loser anyways just leave him alone and tell him how you feel even if he cries.
7. From the sounds of it, I dont think he's trying to be a stalker, I just think he likes you. But he is too old for you. Just explain to him that it's nothing personal, youre just not allowed to date him because of your parents rules, and you don't want to get introuble if anyone sees you getting hugged by him.
8. get a order from the police [restraining order] nip it in the bud before he becomes obsessive
also tell your parents all they need to know as they are your best bets in life
9. well just tell him to stay away or tell your parents
10. tell him he is scaring you
11. just tell him how you feel and your parents rules.that you can be friends but nothing more.
12. Hey, the first thing you need to do is talk to him and tell him straight up how you feel. If he is sensitive, well that is his problem! You have your own life to live and if he does not understand how Creeped out he makes you feel he has to deal with it! Don't let this type of behavior go on, because in a way you are leading him on, so let him know how you feel as soon as you can! If he gets in your face, that's the wrong thing he should be doing and this only lets me know he has got some insecurity problems. Tell your parents, especially your Dad whats going on and I am sure he will take some action. Let everyone from your School Principal to your local Sheriff's Deputy know that this ADULT is bothering you! If he is 18 and you are 14 you are looking at Molester in the making. It is up to you to do the right thing!
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