Yeah question is pretty self explanitory. My best friend for the past year and a half likes another guy and im quickly falling for her and she does not know it yet. Should I tell her even though she likes another guy or should i just put it off till after hopefully their relationship ends quick or never takes off...
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1. 6 hours ago
yes im a boy..sorry if i did not make that clear....lol yeah might as well add some more..we are always hanging out and last year she almost forced her friends to make me ask her to homecoming but then she said to go just as friends. Now all of the sudden she likes this guy from her church and I dont know if I should tell her I like her or not know and I also definetly dont want to hurt our friendship because that is number one to me! Please any suggestion will help.. also im a shy guy when it comes to this so just telling her is a tough option.. or if you do tell me to tell her tell me how to do it..
2. R you a boy?
3. Quick! Tell her how you feel about her! Or if you don't, you will regret it for the rest of your life!! Call her now!!!
4. tell her now! but make sure after you tell her, your friendship wont get awkward
5. Tell her now rather then wishing her doom!
6. Do it now.why have you waited so long? go for it !
Best wishes!
7. Watch out with that. My best friend of 8 years told me that he was in love with me several months ago and it didn't go well. Basically ruined out friendship. If she likes someone else you're going to have to bit your tongue and wait for it to end. Then maybe tell her but wait a while so you aren't a rebound. Please take the time to see if there's a chance that she likes you as well. And if you do decide to tell her don't just spill your guts. Tell her in a creative way.
8. If you don't mind waiting till her other crush gets her first, then do that. Keep in mind, that she might find this guy or someone else perfect for her and you'll never get another chance. Especially if you're too shy and her rejection would make it awkward to be around her. I don't mean to give you no hope, but it seems like it would take a life or death situation before you got up the courage to ask her. If you can't JUST be her friend, tell her something about how you like her hair, or eyes. Just bring it up in conversation, and POW, drop her a compliment. Tell her that you like hanging out with her more than any of your other friends. If she says she feels awful, or sick, say she looks great. Or if she says her hair is messed up, say you think it's cute. Chicks are complete suckers for that sort of stuff. Maybe if you drop enough hints, you won't have to tell her. And if she doesn't try to meet you half way after she figures out you like her, she does not want you to be anything more than a friend. Good luck, but try to act quicker than the other guy
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